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许多年轻父母为自己的孩子特别不好管教而忧心忡忡。他们都在抱怨自己的柱子脾气犟,哪怕全是为了孩子好,但想叫他怎么做他偏不,因而常为此愤愤不平,父母这种忧愤之情是可以理解的。但父母们却不会想到造成孩子这种情况的正是自己的教育方法不当。我们常听见许多年轻父母这样对孩子说:“你不做完作业晚上就不准看电视。”“你不把地扫了就别想吃西瓜。”类似的话还有很多。但是这样教育孩子效果往往很不好。
Many young parents are worried about their children being particularly poorly disciplined. They are all complaining about their pillars, even if they are all good for their children, but they are often indignant at what they want to do. The indignity of their parents is understandable. However, parents do not think that it is their own methods of education that result in their children’s misconduct. We often hear many young parents say to their children this way: “You are not allowed to watch TV at night without finishing your homework.” “You do not want to eat watermelons without sweeping the ground.” There are many similarities. However, it is often not good to educate children in this way.