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一大哥给我打电话,说姐姐的公爹去世了。让我第二天跟着他去姐家吊唁。家有长子国有大臣,大哥的话不能不听。第二天一早我就回老家接了大哥,一起到姐姐家。我和大哥先去灵堂行了大礼。按我们的这个亲戚,是该行七叩礼的。礼数最高的是九叩礼。那是孝子、女婿和孝子的仁兄弟之类的直系家人行的。作为我们家这种姻亲关系,也就行七叩礼,就是作一个揖,跪下磕三个头,然后到前面摆放亡者照片的灵桌前传递香烛酒杯。传过后回来再跪下磕三个头,起来作个揖后到灵堂里去哭。
A big brother called me and said my father’s father died. Let me follow him to my sister the next day condolences. At home, there are eldest son, state minister, big brother, can not help but listen. The very next morning I went back to my home and took her brother to my sister’s home. My brother and I went to the Church of the great gift. According to our relatives, it is the seven kings of the trip. The highest number of etiquette is nine knock ceremony. That is direct family members like filial son, son-in-law and dutiful brother. As an affair of our own family, we bowed seven times to bow, kneeling and knocking down three heads, then to the spiritual table in front of the photograph of the deceased to pass incense and wine glasses. After passing down and knelt knock three head, get up and go to the hall to cry.