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“你对送给你书的格兰德叔叔致谢了吗?”“多茜姨姨送给你玩具时你说了什么?”每每发问,得到的总是孩子们的支支吾吾或耸耸肩。圣诞节已经过去些日子了,对孩子们的屡教不改我已疲于唠叨,而他们也早已耳朵生茧,无动于衷了。无可奈何之下,我下令他们不许玩收到的新玩具、不许穿别人送的新衣裳,直至一封恰如其分的致谢信发出为止。然而他们还是不断地寻找延误时间的借口,而且还满腹牢骚,颇不情愿。我气急败坏,情急之下忽然灵光一闪:“上车。”“去哪里?”莎拉迷惑不解地问。有一天,我读了《父亲在家庭教育中的作用》一文后,心里再也无法平静。因为我在胆小怯懦、做事拖拉的女儿身上,看到了父亲教育缺失的影子。作为父亲,我有一种深深的内疚。我开始有意识地在女儿面前强化父亲的角色行为,以男子汉坚强、勇敢的形象感染女儿。每当女儿遇到困难,我总是用“家有男子汉,什么也不怕”来表现自己。一天吃晚餐时突然停电,整幢楼陷入了黑暗之中。我安慰大家说:“没关系,可能是电表超载把保险丝烧断了。”我对女儿说:“跟爸爸修电表去。”我拿着手电,带着女儿沿着漆黑的楼梯从5楼下到1楼,修好了保险丝。在这以前,女儿因怕黑一到
“Did you thank Grandfather Grant, who gave you the book?” “What did you say when Aunt Dohey gave you toys?” “Every time I ask, I always get the kids’ support Or shrug. It’s been a long time since Christmas, and I’ve been nagging at the children’s repeated education, and they have long been cocooned and indifferent. In desperation, I ordered them to refrain from playing the new toys they received and not to wear the new clothes they sent them until an appropriate thank-you note was sent. However, they continue to look for an excuse to delay time, but also full of complaints, reluctantly. I was in a hurry and I was suddenly in a state of emergency: ”where did you go? “ ”Sarah puzzled. One day, after I read the article “My father’s role in family education,” my heart can no longer calm down. Because I was cowardly, dilapidated daughter, saw the shadow of his father’s lack of education. As a father, I have a deep guilt. I began to consciously reinforce my dad’s role in front of her daughters and infect her daughters with a strong and brave man’s image. Whenever a daughter encounters difficulties, I always express myself with “a man with a man and nothing”. Suddenly a day when eating dinner power outage, the entire building into the darkness. I comforted everyone saying: “It does not matter, it may be overloaded the fuse to blow the fuse.” “I said to my daughter:” Go with my dad at the meter. "I took a flashlight and took my daughter along the dark staircase 5 down to the first floor, repaired the fuse. Prior to this, my daughter was afraid of the darkness