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男青年L:我有个缺点,就是口有点笨,越到关键时候越来不了词。请问,这种情况能不能改变? 智云:我觉得,你现在首先需要树立这样一个信念:一切现状都是可以改变的,只要我们为它的改变提供了客观的和主观的条件。你所说的口笨也是这样,当你在坚定了要改变它的信念和决心以后,才有可能找到改变它的方法和解决问题的关键点。一般来说,造成口笨的关键缘由应当从生理和心理两个方面考虑,现在请你回答我一个问题,你在同你的亲友面对面交谈时是不是也有这种口笨的感觉?
Young men L: I have a weakness, that is, a bit stupid mouth, the more critical words beyond the word. Excuse me, can this change? Chi Yun: I think you now need to first establish the belief that everything can be changed as long as we provide objective and subjective conditions for its change. The same is true of what you are saying, and when you are firm in your beliefs and determination to change it, you are likely to find the key to changing its approach and solving the problem. As a general rule, the key reason for causing stupidity should be considered physiologically and psychologically. Now, please answer my question. Do you feel this stupid feeling when you face to face with your relatives and friends?