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一、传统婚姻中理想的配偶条件 传统中国婚姻的目的是“传宗接代”,择偶标准是为这种目的服务的。在这种婚姻中,感情因素是次要的,那种完全出于当事者性魅力的相互吸引、一见钟情的浪漫婚姻是极少见的,毋宁说这种婚姻在传统婚姻中是受贬抑的,因为这种婚姻通常没有那种通过明媒正娶、仔细权衡各种条件后缔结的婚姻来得稳定。因此,同注重个人感情因素的现代婚姻形式相比,传统村落社会中的婚姻具有实际、理性和慎重的特点。这种婚姻更接近商品交换,即在
First, the ideal spouse conditions in traditional marriage The purpose of traditional Chinese marriage is “preacher generation”, spouse standards serve this purpose. In this kind of marriage, the emotional factor is secondary. The romantic marriage which is totally attractive to the parties’ charm at first sight is seldom seen. Rather, this kind of marriage is deprecated in the traditional marriage because Such marriages usually do not have the kind of marriage that has been concluded through the mediation of the media and the careful weighing of various conditions. Therefore, compared with the modern forms of marriage, which focus on personal feelings, the marriage in the traditional village society has the characteristics of reality, rationality and prudence. This marriage is closer to the exchange of goods, that is