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可怜天下父母心。为了儿女们将来能上个重点高中,考上理想的大学,立足于这个竞争激烈的社会,父母不惜血本,狠抓孩子的早期教育,尤其是小学阶段,让孩子学画画、练钢琴、上奥数班等等。一句话,让孩子拼命努力。一旦孩子考个高分,家长就对孩子说:“有什么好?这是你比人家多花了好多钱学的。”考得不好的话,又说:“你看看人家,不花钱也比你强!”乍一听,好像蛮合理,可细细琢磨,这种家庭教育是有弊端的,它反映了在教育中存在一种不科学的“横比”现象。
Poor world parents heart. In order for their children to go to a key high school in the future and to be admitted to an ideal university, based on this highly competitive society, their parents spare no effort in their efforts to pay close attention to their children’s early education, especially in the primary school stage, where children learn to draw and practice the piano. Mathematical Olympiad classes and more. In a word, let the children work hard. Once the child takes a high grade, the parent says to the child: “What’s the good? It’s you who spend a lot more money than others.” “If you do not test well, then say:” Look at people, It does not cost more than you! “At first glance, seems quite reasonable, can be carefully pondering, this kind of family education has drawbacks, it reflects the existence of an unscientific ” horizontal " phenomenon.