儿子的性启蒙

• 作 者: 晏红
• 出 处: 独生子女
• 发表日期: 2002年02期
• 关键词: 讨论性 性教育 娶媳妇 就是你 余鹏 人格教育 不知道 榜样示范 性观念 社会化进程

长期以来,性为人们所忌讳和回避,不少父母至今仍难以用一颗平常之心去对待,认为和孩子讨论性问题,不仅难以启齿,而且有失长辈尊严。因而,对孩子的性问题,要么采用愚民政策,要么用高压手段解决。当孩子问“我是从哪里来的”时,要么愚弄孩子:“从山上捡的”、“从沙滩上扒的”。要么“啪”一个耳光,“小孩子别七问八问!”孩子一个很纯洁的“性”

For a long time, sex has been taboo and avoided by many people. Many parents still find it difficult to treat them with a common heart. They think that discussing sexual issues with their children is not only hard to tell but also has the dignity of elders. Therefore, the child’s sexual problems, either using the policy of ignorant, or use high-handed solutions. When the child asks, “Where did I come from,” I either fool the child: “picking up from the hill,” “picking up from the beach.” Or “pop” slap in the face, “children do not ask seven questions!” Children a very pure “sex”