人与人:还要讲“距离”

• 作 者: 周晓燕 曹刚
• 机 构: 中国人民大学哲学系 副教授、法学博士后
• 出 处: 人民论坛
• 发表日期: 2004年07期
• 关键词: 个人空间 私密性 人际交往 心理安全 间隔开 中国建设银行 在路上 给你 雾非雾 隔三秋

美学讲,“距离产生美”,其实人与人之间也要讲“距离”。一方面,地球愈小;另一方面,个人空间愈大,人们对“私密性”的要求愈大,这就有了“人泡儿”之说。在越来越频繁的人际交往中适度地把握好“距离”真是一门不小的学问呢！人的“距离”没有固定的数字,它因人、因场合而异,掌握了距离这一门学问,我们就学会了尊重和被尊重,就能更好地处理人与人之间的关系。

Aesthetics, “the distance produces beauty”, in fact, people should talk about “distance”. On the one hand, the smaller the earth, on the other hand, the greater the personal space and the greater the people’s demand for “privacy,” there is a “human bubble”. Moderately grasp the “distance” in more and more frequent interpersonal communication is really not a small learning too! There is no fixed number for people’s “distance.” Because it varies from place to place and masters the knowledge of distance, we learn how to respect and be respected to better handle the relationship between people.