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孩子做作业时你可曾在一边监工?我相信面对这个问题,大多数家长的答案是肯定的,我也不例外。从儿子上小学开始,我就是监督到底的。不为别的,是儿子淘气。如果任由他自己边写边玩,总得写到晚上九、十点钟。再加上小学阶段需要家长监督完成的作业比较多,像听写、背书、口算,想彻底不监督也不容易。可是这种情况到了初中就不一样了。刚开始,我还是像过去一样,儿子做作业时,就坐在旁边督战。可中学学习更多的是靠孩子自主学习、自我管理的能力,很多事情家长插不上手。每每看到儿子做错了题,我都急不可耐地指出来,可儿子并不领情,反而几次不客气地说:“您能不能让我一个人做?等我做完了您再看。”更有甚者,他居然
Have you ever been a supervisor when your child is doing homework? I believe that in the face of this problem, most parents’ answers are affirmative and I am no exception. Since my son was in elementary school, I was supervising the end. Not for anything else, son naughty. If you let him write while playing, have to write nine or ten at night. Coupled with the parents need to supervise the completion of the primary phase more work, like dictation, endorsement, mouth count, think completely unsupervised is not easy. However, this situation is not the same as the junior high school. At first, as in the past, when I was doing my homework, I was sitting beside the supervise. Can learn more by secondary self-learning by children, self-management capabilities, many things parents can not get started. When I see my son doing something wrong, I can not help but point out that my son does not appreciate it. On the other hand, he bluntly said: "Can you let me do it alone? What’s more, he actually