帮助孩子克服办事拖延

• 作 者: 苏林
• 出 处: 心理与健康
• 发表日期: 1998年02期
• 关键词: 二至 生日礼物 做事方式 鼓起勇气 付诸实行 不公平待遇 指定时间 心想事成 理性审视 看牙医

你的孩子是否在每天最后一刻才能完成作业?他(她)当时也许发誓不会重蹈覆辙,但事过境迁又故态复萌,将从前的痛苦教训抛诸脑后。本文将详细分析这种心态,并教你帮助孩子如何“洗心革面”。自测:你的孩子是否凡事拖延? 假如他(她)犯了下列二至三项毛病,可以断定,他(她)是个办事有拖延倾向的人。 1、怕困难而把艰巨任务拖到最后办理;

Do your children finish their homework at the last minute of each day? He (she) may have vowed not to repeat the same mistakes at the time, but things have changed so quickly that they put aside their painful lessons. This article examines this mentality in more detail and teaches you how to help your child “wash their heads”. Self-test: Does your child delay anything? If he or she makes the following two or three problems, you can conclude that he or she is a person with a tendency to delay. 1, afraid of difficulties and the arduous task dragged to the final handling;