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美国婚姻问题专家休·康佩尔曾列出一份清单,建议经常做一些相应的事以保持婚姻生活处于最佳状态。每天要做的:帮对方做一件哪怕是很细小的事例如丈夫刮胡子前,妻子去把镜子上的水蒸气擦掉;一方起床之前几分钟,另一方先起来做早饭、热牛奶;给对方挤牙膏,而不是各挤各的。共用某种东西例如,打开一瓶啤酒,两人共享,而不是各开一瓶。拥抱无论什么情况,回家一进门就互相拥抱,使家庭充满爱的气氛。不要事事指责对方不要对对方的决定总是评头论足,说这也不对,那也不好。说“辛苦了”晚上,不管是丈夫风尘仆仆地到家,还是妻
Hugh Conper, a specialist in marital issues in the United States, has listed a list of suggestions that often do something appropriate to keep marriage at its best. Every day to do: to help each other to do even a very small thing For example, before her husband shaved his wife to wipe off the steam on the mirror; a few minutes before getting up, the other party first up for breakfast, hot milk; to The other squeezed toothpaste, rather than crowded. For example, open a bottle of beer for sharing, instead of opening a bottle. Embrace no matter what the situation, go home and hug each other, so that the family atmosphere of love. Do not blame each other do not always comment on each other’s decisions, that’s not right, that’s not good. Say “Tired ” night, no matter her husband goes to bed, or wife