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《三国演义》中东吴水军大都督周瑜,因心胸狭窄,嫉妒诸葛亮的雄才大略,在战场上又屡遭失败,于是怒气填胸,以致箭伤复裂,36岁便命归黄泉,临死前发出“既生瑜,何生亮?”的感叹。嫉妒是一种以自我为中心的不健康心理,是一种极为有害的情绪。法国文学家巴尔扎克曾经说过:“嫉妒者的痛苦比任何人的痛苦都大,他自己的不幸和别人的幸福都使他痛苦万分。”怀着嫉妒心理的人,心理狭窄,心地阴暗,当看到别人取得成绩,受到表彰时,明知自己不如别人,却仍认为别人也没有什么了不起,不仅“枪打出头
“Three Kingdoms” Middle East Wu Shuijun, the Metropolitan Zhou Yu, due to narrow mindedness, jealous Zhuge Liang’s majesty, repeated failures on the battlefield, so anger filled chest, resulting in an arrow injury cracked, 36-year-old was ordered to return to the spring, sent before his death “Both Sheng Yu, what bright?” Sigh. Jealousy is a self-centered unhealthy psychology, is a very harmful emotions. The French writer Balzac once said: “Jealousy’s pain is greater than anybody’s pain, his own misfortune and the happiness of others make him extremely painful.” With jealousy people, narrow-minded, dark heart , When you see the achievements of others, being commended, knowing that they are inferior to others, but still think that others are not remarkable, not only "shot