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我国有相当一部分家庭,丈夫长期在外,妻子带领孩子独居。例如部分军人、海员、地质工作者、援外工程技术人员的家庭。改革开放后,又出现了大批到外地打工、在外经商及劳务输出的人员,他们的家庭也属这一类。这类家庭可称为“准单亲家庭”,以区别那些婚姻破裂后由单亲带领孩子的家庭。准单亲家庭带来的问题主要是孩子的培养教育问题,尤其是孩子的心理方面,如性格、意志、行为能力等的培养问题,如果处理不当,有可能产生消极的后果。之所以产生消极的后果,其主要原因之一就是缺少父亲的阳刚之气的熏陶。阳刚之气指男性普遍具有的热情、高亢、进取、果敢、刚毅等多种品格。女性相对来说较多温柔、含蓄、坚韧、细致。一般认为,一个
A considerable part of China’s family, her husband out for a long time, his wife led children living alone. For example, some military personnel, seafarers, geological workers, foreign aid engineering and technical personnel of the family. After the reform and opening up, a large number of personnel migrating to other places and exporting business and labor have emerged. Their families also belong to this category. Such families can be called “single-parent families” to distinguish families whose children are led by their single parents after the marriage breaks down. The problems caused by single-parent families are mainly children’s training and education. In particular, the psychological aspects of children, such as the cultivation of personality, will and ability, can have negative consequences if they are not properly handled. One of the main reasons for the negative consequences is the lack of masculinity of the father. Masculinity refers to men generally have the passion, high-pitched, aggressive, resolute, resolute and other character. Women are relatively more gentle, subtle, tough and meticulous. Generally think that one