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在小学生心理咨询中常有家长反映,自己的孩子在做作业时喜欢边做边玩,有的孩子是玩玩具,有的是做些与学习无关的无意义动作,比如玩弄手指。无论家长怎样跟他们讲道理、甚至惩罚,都很难有什么效果。其实,孩子的这些问题是不难解决的,关键是要方法对头。 边做作业边玩,原因一般有两种。 第一种是属于学习习惯不良。这种孩子在完成作业时并没有多大的困难,主要是自我控制能力较差。活泼好动是孩子的天性,他们对泛泛而谈的一般道理的抽象理解能力也较差。因而对这种不良学习习惯的矫治,应结合对孩子意志品格
Pupils in the psychological counseling parents often reflect their own children doing homework like to do while playing, and some children are playing toys, and some do not have to do with learning meaningless actions, such as playing fingers. No matter how parents talk to them or even punish them, it is hard to have any effect. In fact, these children’s problems are not difficult to solve, the key is to approach the right way. While doing homework while playing, there are generally two reasons. The first is a bad learning habits. Such children do not have much difficulty in completing their homework, mainly because of their poor self-control. Lively and active is the nature of children, and their general understanding of generality is poorly understood. Therefore, the correction of such poor learning habits should be combined with the child’s will character