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好朋友敏打电话向我诉说她的苦恼:结婚以来婆媳关系一直紧张,刚开始夫还从中安慰调解,现在战线明显偏向他妈一边,致使现在发展到夫妻关系也日趋紧张。 放下电话,想想其实不只敏,自己不也曾经有过像敏这样的烦恼吗?婆媳关系一直是家庭矛盾的焦点。你要问起来呀,那可真是“婆说婆有理,媳说媳有理”。其实现在的婆婆是很满足的,只要做媳妇的稍会“来事儿”,就能使关系变得融洽。媳妇会不会“来事儿”的关键就在于所站的角度问题,
Good friend called me to tell her distress: the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been strained since the beginning of marriage, and the conciliation has been comforted by her husband at the very beginning. Now the frontline is obviously biased toward his mother and the relationship between husband and wife is now becoming increasingly tense. Put down the phone, think it is not only sensitive, they do not have the same sensitivity like this? The relationship between mother and daughter has always been the focus of family conflicts. You have to ask it, it can be really “woman-in-law, daughter-in-law said.” In fact, the mother-in-law is very satisfied, as long as the daughter-in-law will “do things” can make the relationship become harmonious. Daughter-in-law will not “thing thing” is the key to the point of view of the problem,