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心理学家老爱说人要有独处的能力云云。事实却是,貌似这种能力我们从小都没被培养,也不被鼓励。朋友最近失恋了,6年的感情,说掰就掰了。貌似从春节开始,男友便处于半消失状态,电话日渐稀少不说,居然还用上了“谢谢”“麻烦了”这样的客气措辞,朋友先是纳闷,等她反应过来或许出状况了,找上门去,人家已经有了新欢。软磨硬泡、折腾了一宿,男友终是不愿重修旧好,还开玩笑似的讨饶,求放过“我们这对狗男女”。闻此消息,我们几个朋友特地安排了两回酒局,庆祝她重回单身,外加鼓励她重整士气。没想到朋友根本就不买账,一次都
Psychologists love to say that people have the ability to be alone. The truth is, it looks like this ability has not been cultivated since childhood, nor encouraged. Recently, a friend lost her love, 6 years of feelings, saying breaking off. Seemingly from the beginning of the Spring Festival, her boyfriend will be in a state of semi-disappeared, the phone is increasingly scarce, not to mention, actually also used “thank you ” “troubles ” this kind of polite words, friends first wonder, wait for her reaction may be out Go home, people already have a new love. Ruanmojuanpao, tossing a night, her boyfriend is finally reluctant to rebuild the old good, but also joke-like begging for Rao, seeking to let go, “We are the dog men and women.” According to the news, a few of our friends arranged two occasions to celebrate her return to bachelorette, in addition to encouraging her to rebuild her morale. I did not expect my friends did not buy it, once all