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在家庭生活中,孩子总是以求知的眼光注视着长者的一举一动。正是在与长者的接触中,孩子形成了个人角色意识,并从长者身上获得行为的榜样,并在生活中逐渐把长者的模式变为自己的现实行为。彦江同学的犯罪轨迹和犯罪根源,一方面是父母亲自身素质的低下,另一方面是父母教育方法的粗暴简单和放任不管。因比,彦江走上抢劫之路与其父的教育不当密不可分。子不教,父之过。粗暴的亲子教育,会造就怎样一个孩子呢?著名心理学家西琳·德林顿博士在她那篇令人震惊的文章《你是否在谋害孩子》中说:传统的家教方式——暴力、责打、责骂、压制等
In family life, children always watch for the elderly’s every act of knowing. It is in contact with the elderly that children form a sense of personal role and receive examples of behavior from the elderly and gradually change the model of the elderly into their own reality in their lives. Yanjiang students crime trajectory and the root causes of crime, on the one hand, the low quality of their parents, on the other hand is the crude and simple parental education methods and indulgence. Inbi, Yanjiang embarked on a road of robbery and his father’s education is not inseparable. The child does not teach, the father too. Cruel parent-child education, what will create a child? Well-known psychologist Dr. Xilin Delington in her shocking article “Are you murdering your child,” said: traditional tutoring - violence, Blame, blame, suppress and so on