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孩子进幼儿园的时候,我们把他揽在怀里,对他说:“那儿有很多小朋友和玩具,不要哭,妈妈会早早来接你。”孩子上小学了。在校门口,我们会摸着他的头对他说:“不是幼儿园,要好好学习,听老师的话,争取做个好学生。”孩子上了高中。走出家门的时候,我们也没忘记嘱咐两句:“那个球不要再踢了,或者说,不要熬夜,要劳逸结合。”孩子考上了大学。临行,我们会心甜如蜜,双目忍泪,对他说:“学会照顾自己,需要什么给家里写信。”孩子走向社会的时候,我们对着他的背影,又对他说:“不是在父母身边了.性子要收一收,和同事处好关系,好好工作。”总之,在孩子的成长过程中,我们一直在用一种近乎临渴掘井式的忠告规范着孩子
When the child entered the kindergarten, we put him in his arms and said to him: “There are many children and toys there, do not cry, and my mother will pick you up early.” The children went to primary school. At the school gate, we will touch his head and say to him: “It’s not a kindergarten, you should study hard, listen to your teacher, and strive to be a good student.” “The boy went to high school. When we got out of the house, we did not forget to ask the two sentences: ”The ball should not be kicked again, or to say, do not stay up all night and work and rest.“ Before leaving, we will sweetheart, tears of tears in his eyes, said to him: ”learn to take care of themselves, what is needed to write a letter to the family. “ When children come to society, we are facing him back, Saying: ”It’s not about your parents. You have to close it up, get in good relationship with your colleagues and work hard." In short, we’ve been using a near-hunger digging advice as kids grow up Regulate the child