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【引子】一对焦虑的父母前来求助,一向非常懂事的乖女儿突然一百八十度的大转变:学习成绩急剧下降、不穿校服了、不写作业了、不弹琴了、上网、交朋友……再细细探究,原来这个乖女儿从四岁开始学弹琴就开始了痛苦的学习生涯,爸爸妈妈为了让女儿成才采取严格的管教政策,每次打过孩子都会说:“这都是为了你好!”孩子进人青春期,妈妈管得更严了,包括结交什么样的朋友都严格控制,有时候还盯梢、找同学谈话、包括听什么歌,和谁一起上下学,能不能参加同学聚会等等都要过问和管束……
【Introduction】 An anxious parents come to seek help, has always been a very sensible girl sudden change one hundred and eighty degrees: a sharp decline in academic performance, do not wear school uniforms, do not write homework, and not playing, and the Internet, pay Friends ... ... and then carefully explore the original good girl from the age of four began to learn to play the piano began a painful career of learning, mom and dad in order to allow her daughter to adopt a strict discipline policy, every time the child would say: “ Is for hello! ”Children into adolescence, mom control more strict, including what kind of friends to make strict control, sometimes stalking, to talk to classmates, including what song to listen to, and who go to school together, can Can not participate in class reunion and so on have to ask and control ......