破译女性肢体语言

• 作 者: 吕斌
• 出 处: 伴侣(A版)
• 发表日期: 2004年05期
• 关键词: 红唇 心理学专家 请看 她的眼睛 心理活动 自恋 给你 手形 多数性 意识淡漠

有实验发现,一个女人要向外界传达完整的信息,单纯的语言成份只占7%,声调占38%,另外55%的信息都需要由非语言的体态语言来传达。而且因为肢体语言通常是一个人下意识的举动,所以它们很少具有欺骗性。因此,当一个男子向一个女子求婚时,他大可不必等到她开口应允,看看她紧抿的红唇、低垂的眼帘和微微颤动的肩膀,答案就不言自明了。请看心理学专家的剖析:

Some experiments found that a woman wants to convey the complete message to the outside world, only 7% of the language component, 38% of the tone, and 55% of the information needs to be conveyed by non-verbal body language. And because body language is usually a subconscious move, they are rarely deceptive. Therefore, when a man marries a woman, he does not have to wait for her to speak up, to see her tight red lips, drooping eyes and slightly fluttering shoulders. The answer is self-evident. Look at the psychology expert’s analysis: