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惩罚是一种既艰难又复杂的影响方式.因此在运用惩罚手段时,要特别注意方法对路,慎重考虑,十分小心.从教育学角度看,当惩罚能帮助孩子认识到自己的错误,使他能够产生真正的悔过之心并能认识到自己错误行动所引起的后果时,这种手段才有运用的必要.惩罚孩子的手段包括责备、训斥、暂时不与其说话、改变对孩子的态度、对他表示冷淡……重要的是让孩子知道他为什么受罚.在给孩子做解释时,大人必须注意谈话方式,决不能伤害其自尊心.
Punishment is an arduous and complicated way of influence, so be careful when using punitive means and pay special attention to it. From an educational point of view, when punishment can help children to recognize their own mistakes, It is necessary for such means to be exercised when he is capable of producing real repentance and recognizing the consequences of his erroneous actions, including reproving, reprimanding, temporarily speaking against him, altering his attitude toward the child, Indifference to him ... It is important to let the child know why he was punished, and when explaining to the child, the adult must pay attention to the way he talks and must not harm his or her self-esteem.