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在《最在乎的人是谁》这篇文章里看过这样几句话:有个心理实验表明,假如给你看一堆照片,照片上一堆人中有你自己,那么毫无疑问,你最先看见的会是自己。这叫自我意识,或者说自恋。人最在乎的,是自己。如果你恰好看见一个熟人在照镜子,你会发现,他(尤其是她)的镜中模样和平时大相径庭,既柔和又做作,镜子里是他自己较为满意的表情、角度。其实人只要自己看得见自己,他的表情就要美得多,他的行为就会美得多。当时我就想:如果让学生时常有机会见到最美好的自己,并让这种美好得到延续,他们是否会实现自我规约,朝着更阳光的方向发展?如果让学生有机会偶尔见到自己任性、调皮、捣蛋、狭隘时的面孔,是否也会不好意思,所有不美好的表情和行
In the essay “Who Cares Most”, I read a few words: A psychological experiment shows that if you look at a bunch of photos and you have yourself in a bunch of people on the photo, there is no doubt that you The first thing I see is myself. This is called self-awareness, or narcissism. Most people care about themselves. If you happen to see an acquaintance looking in the mirror, you will find that the appearance of him (and especially her) in the mirror is quite different from that of peace. It is both soft and artificial, and the mirror is his own satisfying expression and angle. In fact, as long as people can see themselves, his face will be much more beautiful, his behavior will be much more beautiful. At that time, I thought: If students are often given the opportunity to see the best of themselves, and to let the good continue, will they achieve self-regulation and move toward a more sunny direction? If students are given the chance to see themselves occasionally Willful, naughty, tricky, narrow-minded face, whether it will be sorry, all not good looks and lines