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从不委屈孩子有专家建议:“让孩子从小吃点苦。”为何要无端让孩子吃苦?如今的读书郎还不够苦吗?孩子活一辈子究竟会吃到什么样的苦,谁能估计?我不信这个“邪”,所以,我从不人为地让孩子吃苦。我养孩子的原则是:尽我最大能力让他吃得满意,穿得漂亮,玩得舒心,同时教他好好做人,努力读书。他想吃的东西,只要人能吃,我买得起,就基本答应。一次,儿子想吃路边的羊肉串,他妈说:“那么脏的东西不能吃。”儿子哭了。我就给他买了一串,但告诉他:“这东西虽香,但确实不干净。这次给你尝一下,希望你今后少吃或不吃。”儿子点头允诺。
No grievances have experts advise: “Let the children bitter from the snack.” Why should the child endure indiscriminately? Reading Lang is not enough bitter? Children live a lifetime what kind of suffering will eat, who can estimate? I Do not believe this “evil”, so, I never let the children artificially hard. My principle is to raise children: try my best to make him eat satisfied, dressed beautiful, enjoyable, and teach him to be good man, and strive to study. What he wants to eat, as long as people can eat, I can afford, the basic agreed. Once, his son wanted to eat the mutton string side of the road, his mother said: “so dirty things can not eat.” Son cried. I bought him a string, but told him: “This thing is fragrant, but it is not clean, this time for you to taste, I hope you eat or not eat in the future.” Son nodded promises.