鼓励学生主动化解与家长的矛盾

• 作 者: 尹宗义
• 机 构: 云南省昭通市教育局,
• 出 处: 班主任
• 发表日期: 2015年12期
• 关键词: 小高 父亲节 心理障碍 教育能力 交流时间 第三天 教育方法 心理咨询师 家长心理 自私行为

产生矛盾一般双方面都有责任,因此只要有一方改变态度,矛盾往往比较容易化解。父母受家长角色和传统观念影响,一般不愿放下身段;或因T作忙、压力大,恨铁不成钢等原因,而难以在短时间内改变态度和做法。相反,学生的可塑性大,有朝气活力,有征服困难的迫切愿望。所以,当学生与家长发生矛盾时,我们只需换个角度,让学生主动站出来,勇敢地承担起化解矛盾的重担,或许会柳暗花明,曲径通幽。

Conflicts are generally the responsibility of both sides, so as long as one party to change attitudes, conflicts are often easier to resolve. Parents are affected by the role of parents and their traditional beliefs. They are generally reluctant to let go of their bodies, or they are hard pressed, stressed and hated of iron. It is hard for parents to change attitudes and practices in a short period of time. On the contrary, the students are malleable, energetic and have the urgent desire to conquer difficulties. Therefore, when there is a conflict between students and their parents, we only need to change our perspective so that students can take the initiative to stand up and bravely take the burden of resolving conflicts and conflicts.