如何避免家中孩子相互比较

• 作 者: 王绍媛
• 出 处: 大家健康(育儿生活)
• 发表日期: 2003年08期
• 关键词: 非独生子女 占有欲 同伴关系 生活范围 父母会 社会接触 仲裁者

有些双胞胎(多胞胎)、混合家庭或非独生子女的家庭,因家中往往有两个或两个以上的孩子,彼此间难免会产生嫉妒或发生争吵。作为父母,有时候爱老大,因为老大较懂事;有时候爱老幺,因为他很会撒骄。其实每个孩子都有他们的优点,做父母的不要企求老大的优点老幺也有,也不要盼望老幺的乖巧老大也有。而是找出他们各的优点,秉持公平公正的则,一样的爱他们,避免他们产生互相争宠、比较的心理。

Some twins (polygamy), mixed-family or non-only-child families often have two or more children at home and will inevitably have envy or quarrel with each other. As parents, sometimes love Boss, because the boss is more sensible; sometimes love the old unit, because he will sprinkle arrogance. In fact, each child has their advantages, parents do not want to boss the advantages of the old unitary also, do not expect the old unitary well-behaved boss also. But to find out their respective merits and to uphold fairness and fairness, to love them equally and to avoid their mutual petting and psychology.