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在子女求学的道路上,几乎所有的父母都费尽了心血,可一旦高考结束,家长们就如释重负般地松了口气,殊不知,此时考生的状态更需关注。因为考试结束并不意味着心理压力的自然消失,相反,从极度紧张到极度松弛带来的巨大心理落差,以及对考试成绩的预期与实际结果的差异,会让许多考生有不同程度的突发性心理冲突和生理紊乱,这可能会给孩子的身心健康带来严重影响。因此,家长应该重视子女的考后心理疏导。一、极度松弛型十几年寒窗苦读,孩子们的身心承受着难以估量的求学压力。老师会时常“引导”学生:“现在你好好努力,少玩一点,高考完了就可以痛痛快快地玩了。”家长会不断叮嘱孩子,
On the way to their children’s school, almost all parents are hard-working, but once the college entrance examination ended, parents relieved relief, everyone knows, at this time the status of candidates more need attention. Because the end of the exam does not mean the natural disappearance of psychological pressure, on the contrary, from the extreme tension to extreme relaxation caused by the huge psychological gap, and the expected test results and the actual differences between the results will make many candidates have different levels of sudden Sexual psychological conflicts and physical disorders, which may have a serious impact on the child’s physical and mental health. Therefore, parents should attach importance to the examination of children’s psychological counseling. First, the extremely relaxed type Studying for more than a decade, children’s physical and mental pressure to withstand the immeasurable study. Teachers often “guide ” students: “Now you work hard, play less, the college entrance exam finished you can play with pain. ” Parents will continue to urge their children,