男人为什么不想回家

• 作 者: 安静
• 出 处: 婚育与健康
• 发表日期: 2013年11期
• 关键词: 人的社会性 周国平 强迫行为 活着 文化涵养 行为特性 审美疲劳 媒体调查 《回家》 真实感受

对男人来说,女人身体里的子宫就是男人的家,出生在此,幸福在此,死亡也在此。最近,有媒体调查了一些已婚男士,他们中80%以上都表示一星期中,能按时回家的天数最多两三天。问到他们“为什么不喜欢回家”这个话题时,男人们的回答大概归为三类:外面的世界太精彩,男人是喜欢玩的人;男人的社会性决定朋友多,应酬也多;对妻子的审美疲劳。记得多年前读周国平的书,他说:“女人本身是个家,男人没有家,除非有一个女人愿意要他,男人才会有家。”从文

For men, the womb in a woman’s body is the home of a man, born here, where happiness is the death. Recently, some media surveyed some married men. Over 80% of them said that they could go home on time for up to two or three days in a week. Asked about their “Why do not you like to go home” topic, the men’s responses fall into three categories: the world outside is so exciting that men are like to play; the social decisions of men are more friends and more social The aesthetic fatigue of his wife. I remember reading Zhou Guoping’s book many years ago. He said: “A woman is a family, a man has no family, and a man can have a family unless one woman wants him.”