狭路相逢勇者胜——谈高三学生的挫折感

• 作 者: 潘赛
• 机 构: 厦门大学教育研究院,
• 出 处: 考试与招生
• 发表日期: 2010年10期
• 关键词: 高三学生 重点中学 狭路相逢勇者胜 自我价值 学校生活 人际交往 异性交往 自我意识 交往过程 情绪体验

案例一:杨硕,一个重点中学的高三学生,成绩各方面都算优秀。但是总觉得和同学有距离,缺少知心朋友,学习上可以很轻松但是处理人际关系上就很沉重。有次,学校组织趣味比赛,需要组队,通过合作来参加比赛,他等着别人来“邀请”他,但是没有人来和他组队报名,看着其他同学都开心地组队报名,他很失落,有很大的受挫感。

Case 1: Yang Shuo, a middle school senior high school student, scores are considered excellent in all aspects. However, there is always a distance with my classmates, lack of close friends, easy to learn but to handle interpersonal relationships is very heavy. There are times when the school organizes fun competitions, and needs to form a team to participate in the competition through cooperation. He waits for someone to come and invite him, but no one has to sign up with him and watch the other students happily sign up He is very frustrated and has a great sense of frustration.