陪伴孩子也是一种爱

• 作 者: 窦桂梅
• 机 构: 清华大学附属小学,
• 出 处: 辅导员
• 发表日期: 2017年06期
• 关键词: 父母本 三迁 习惯养成 人生态度 乐学 乐之

非常幸运地读到刘称莲《陪孩子走过小学六年》一书。我一直认为,每个孩子来到我们身边,都是上天赐给我们的最好礼物。但为人父母本能的爱很难有统一标准。我早已发现,与孩子们生活在一起,将他们养育成人,是一个极富挑战性、极易让人筋疲力尽的过程,仅仅有爱心是远远不够的。单就爱孩子的一颗心来说,所有母亲都是好母亲。与孩子共成长,则更需要智慧和耐力,并且需要具有阳光、开放的心态。

Very lucky to read Liu Chenglian “to accompany children through primary school for six years,” a book. I always think that every child who comes to us is the best gift God has given us. However, it is difficult for parents’ instinctive love to have a uniform standard. I have long found it a challenging and exhausting process to live with children and raise them as adults. It is not enough to have love alone. For a single lover’s heart, all mothers are good mothers. When growing up with children, you need more wisdom and endurance, and need to be sunny and open-minded.