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曾有幸福学家指出:孩提时代的快乐将影响人一生的情感发展与价值观的建立。但快乐究竟是什么?又该如何让孩子生活在快乐中?其实,想要快乐没有那么难,它不是奢侈品,而是一种可以感染和习得的情感体验。让孩子快乐,需要“因材施教”爱笑的孩子是快乐的。不论是内向还是外向的孩子,如果是快乐的,一定会表现出爱笑的特点,尤其是在家庭环境中最能真实地看到这一面。但是,是否容易感受快乐也受先天的影响。初生时就特别容易护理的孩子,往往比较容易感到快乐;相反,初生时特别吵闹、难以安抚的孩子,则需要父母更多的引导和感染。
There have been happiness experts pointed out: childhood joy will affect the emotional development of life and the establishment of values. But what exactly is happiness? And how to make children live in happiness? In fact, want to be happy is not that difficult, it is not a luxury, but a feeling of contagious and acquired emotional experience. Let children be happy, need “teach according to aptitude ” love to laugh children is happy. Whether it is introverted or outgoing children, if it is happy, it must show the characteristics of love and laughter, especially in the family environment to see this most truly. However, whether it is easy to feel happy is also affected by innate influences. Children who are particularly easy to nurture at birth are often more likely to feel happy; on the contrary, children who are particularly noisy at birth, who are difficult to appease, need more guidance and infection from their parents.