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一、老少配看到一位法国朋友孟德威先生写的文章,说中国人选老婆的标准,第一条是要漂亮;另一条是年龄必须比自己小。文章说:20—30岁的男人一般要求对方比他小1一5岁;30—40岁的男人则要求对方小5一15岁;过了40岁的男人,一般就能在他女儿或孙女辈中找老婆了;关于另一种男小女大的恋情,据孟先生说在中国叫“姐弟恋”或“老少配”;他说这样的男人肯定有“恋母情结”,而女老男小的就是“老牛吃嫩草”。他说中国有相当一部人的年轻女性把自已的容貌当成和男人讨价还价的筹码,她们重视外表的程度远远超过欧洲女性。不少中国年轻女子的择偶标准往往希望通过婚姻
First, the young and old with an article written by a French friend, Mr. Meng Dewei, said that Chinese people choose his wife’s standard, the first is to be beautiful; the other is the age must be smaller than himself. The article said: 20-30-year-old man generally requires the other to be 1 to 5 years younger than him; 30-40-year-old man requires the other small 5 to 15 years old; after 40-year-old man, usually in his daughter or granddaughter According to Mr. Meng said in China called “sister love” or “young and old with”; he said such a man must have “Oedipus Complex,” while the old woman The boy is the “old cow to eat tender grass.” He said that quite a few young Chinese women think of their looks as bargaining chips with men, who are far more outward-looking than European women. Many Chinese young women’s mate standards often hope to marry