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儿童依恋母亲这是人之天性,5岁以前视为正常。6岁以后为学龄期,在社会心理发展方面变得上进、勤勉、自信、合作,开始有独立意识。此时恋母太过则易造成心理障碍。笔者在心理门诊曾遇到几个特例:其中一例为某母因本人自幼被领养,曾转换3个家,失去亲生父母之爱,造成心灵创伤。婚后丈夫当兵,不幸殉职,留下母女二人相依为命。妈妈因怕孩子受委屈,重蹈自己幼年复辙,发誓不再结婚。孩子倍受疼爱。上小学前不曾离开母亲一日。孩子虽聪明可爱,但总带几分感伤,失去了一些孩子式的轻松。另一例为一男孩将上初中,在家是小霸王,在外孤独不合群,每晚要抚
It is human nature for children to attach to their mothers and be considered normal before they are 5 years old. After 6 years of age as a school age, in the development of social psychology to become motivated, diligent, confident and cooperative, began to have independent awareness. Oedipus at this time too easy to cause psychological disorders. I encountered several special cases in psychology clinics: One of them was a mother who was adopted as a child since I was a child. She converted 3 families and lost the love of her biological parents, causing trauma. Married husband, soldier, unfortunately died, leaving the mother and daughter two dependent on each other. Mother afraid of the child because of grievances, repeat their childhood, vowed not to get married. Children love so much. On the day before elementary school, she never left her mother. Although the child is smart and lovely, but always with a bit sentimental, lost some children’s relaxed. Another example is a boy going to junior high school, at home is a bully, out of loneliness, every night to ask