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一位我所尊重的教师,曾说起他的“育儿观”:“我很少过问孩子的学习成绩。我只要知道他有兴趣、肯用功就够了。但是,对于他的道德习惯、为人处事,我是一点都不敢马虎的。”我很赞同这位师长的看法。我问他:“在道德教育方面您认为抓什么更重要?”他说:“责任感。”一个人,当他具有了相应的能力时,就要对某些事物负责,孩子成长到一定时候,就应当具备责任感。责任感是他安身立命的基础,需要父母下大功夫,从小培养。在培养孩子责任感这件事情上父母要有特殊的责任感。孩子的责任感是父母责任感的折射。培养孩子的责任感,要从小事到大事,循序渐进。首先,要教育孩子对自己的事情负责,也就是引导孩子从小自理自立。凡是孩子力所能及的事,诸如穿鞋穿衣,刷牙洗手,都要鼓励孩子自己去做。孩子只有能对自己负责,才能开始对家庭、对他人、对集体负责。培养孩子责任感,还要同培养兴趣结合起来。现在我们家庭教育存在的一个普遍问题,是方法过于死板、生硬,较多地依靠外部指令,孩子缺少内在动机和主动精神。培养责任感
A teacher whom I respect, once talked about his “Parenting Viewpoint ”: “I rarely talk about the child’s academic performance, I just know that he is interested, willing to work hard enough, but for his moral Habits, doing things for others, I am not sloppy at all. ”I agree with the teacher’s opinion. I asked him: “What do you think is more important in moral education?” He said: “Responsibility.” When he has the corresponding ability, he is responsible for certain things and the child grows To a certain time, it should have a sense of responsibility. The sense of responsibility is the basis for his life-long commitment, parents need to make great efforts, childhood training. Parents should have a special sense of responsibility in raising children’s sense of responsibility. Children’s sense of responsibility is the refraction of parental responsibility. Train children’s sense of responsibility, from small to big events, step by step. First of all, to educate children responsible for their own affairs, that is, to guide children to take care of themselves. Children should do whatever they can, such as putting on shoes and washing their hands. Children can only be responsible for themselves before they can begin to feel responsible for the family, for others and for the community. Cultivate children’s sense of responsibility, but also with the training of interest combined. Now a common problem in our family education is that the methods are too rigid and rigid, rely more on external instructions, and children lack intrinsic motivation and initiative. Develop a sense of responsibility