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父母是孩子的第一任老师。家庭环境对子女的健康成长影响很大,那什么样的家庭有利子女的健康成长呢?苏联著名教育家马卡连柯认为,只有具备以下三个要素的家庭才称得上。完全家庭”,才有利于子女的健康成长。一、父母和睦融洽相处; 二、家庭里充满爱与互相尊重; 三、父母的威信主要是通过自身的示范作用而获得。父母缺乏威信或威信不是建筑在正确基础上的家庭不利子女的健康成长,下列“威信”都在戒除之列: 1.以高压获得威信:动辄怒骂、打罚,使孩子惧怕。 2.以疏远获得威信:瞧孩子“不顺眼”时,就不理不睬,故意疏远。 3.以傲慢获得威信:在子女面前摆出一副了不起的样子,这在子女缺乏鉴别力时还有些用,但很难长期起作用。
Parents are children’s first teachers. The family environment has a great impact on the healthy growth of children. What kind of family-friendly children’s health grows? The well-known Soviet educator Makarenko believes that only families with the following three elements are worthy of reference. Complete family “is conducive to the healthy growth of children.First, parents get along well with each other; Second, the family is full of love and mutual respect; Third, the prestige of parents is mainly obtained through its own exemplary role.Parents lack of prestige or prestige is not Building on the right foundation of the family unfavorable to the healthy growth of children, the following ”prestige" are out of the list: 1. To obtain prestige and high pressure: easily curse, punish, make the child afraid. 2. Obtaining prestige by alienation: Look at the child Disobedient, deliberately alienated 3. Obtaining prestige with arrogance: a great gesture in front of children, which is useful when children lack discrimination, but it is difficult to work long-term .