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人们有时心里会出现一股对自己不满的感觉。仿佛躯壳是自己的,心却是另一个人,尽做一些违反意愿的事。比如,你执意想在困境中不胆怯、不发窘,可到紧要关头时却偏偏逆而行之了:说话语无伦次,举止慌乱无章。又如,有时想学有所长、尽量快速记住大量知识,可却忘记了刚刚翻过去一页的内容、提笔忘字。你想对喜欢的人敞开自己开朗的心胸,可对方看到的却是毫无理由的拘谨,或者无缘故的忙三迭四。毋庸赘言,类似情况
People sometimes feel a sense of dissatisfaction with themselves. As if the shell is oneself, the heart is another person, do something contrary to the wishes. For example, if you insist that you want to be timid and embarrassed in your predicament, you may be able to take the opposite turn when it comes to a critical moment: saying incoherent speech and behaving in a panicked manner. As another example, sometimes want to learn strengths, try to quickly remember a lot of knowledge, but you have forgotten the contents of the page just turned over to mention pen forget the word. You want to open your own heart to those who love, but the other side can see is no reason for restraint, or for no reason busy three Diego four. Needless to say, a similar situation