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教育专家说,父母教育儿女,如果养成了他们记日记的习惯,就算成功了一半。一个孩子如果每天晚上必须记日记,那他自然得回想一天生活的各个方面,上了哪些课,玩了哪些游戏,碰到了怎样麻烦的作业,有没有和老师、小朋友闹不愉快,有没有什么事让父母不高兴,遇到了什么开心的或者委屈的事情,等等。记日记会回顾,也会反省。教育专家说,一个很顽劣的孩子也不能天天这样面对自己——我今天与同学打架,我今天摔坏了学校的东西,我今天偷了妈妈的钱,等等。孩子做了错事,与其由成人来责备他,不如叫他把自己所做的事记下来,写到日记上来得有效。当然,记日记的功用并不止于反省。它是孩子与自己的对话,是悄悄话,有秘密、有幻想,记录的是自己成长过程中的一段心路历程。在记日记的过程中,孩子会反省、
Education experts say parents educate their children if they have a habit of keeping their diary, even half done. If a child must keep a diary every night, he naturally has to think about all aspects of his life, what classes have been taken, what games he has played, what troubles he has encountered, whether he has any troubles with his teachers or children, and whether he has any problems Let parents unhappy, met what happy or wronged things, and so on. Remember the diary will review, will reflect on. Education experts say a naughty child can not face himself every day - I fight with classmates today, I broke school today, I stole Mom’s money today, and so on. Instead of blaming him for being an adult, the child should be told to write down what he has done and write down the diary to be valid. Of course, the function of diary does not stop at reflection. It is the child’s dialogue with yourself, is whispering, there is a secret, there are fantasies, the record is a mental journey of their own growth process. In diary process, the child will reflect on,