论文部分内容阅读
黄某是一位企业领导,经朋友介绍来心理咨询。在交谈中他说:“我出生于干部家庭,从小养成了一种争强好胜、做事追求十全十美的性格。回顾过去,从上学、参军、提干、转业然后升任企业的业务经理,一直较顺利。但近半年多来,却常感到头昏、疲倦、情绪低落、郁郁寡欢。起因是单位产品销路欠佳,生产经营困难重重,觉得是自己无能,工作没做好,并担心同事们都在讥笑自己,家人也不理解我。即使与朋友一起出去吃饭、娱乐也提不起兴趣。生活中没有一点快乐,我该怎么办?” 现代人的生活有一种共同的特点——不快乐。社会的发展、竞争的激烈和工作效率的提高,使人们身心疲惫,有些人已很久体验不到什么叫活力,忙碌已使人生活刻板化。另外由于追求完美的性格,每天都在强压着自身
Hwang is a business leader, introduced by a friend to psychological counseling. During the conversation, he said: “I was born in a cadre family and grew up with a perfect character and striving for perfection. Looking back, I have been studying business, joining the army, raising cadres, re-working and then becoming a business manager. But more than six months, but often feel dizzy, tired, depressed mood, unhappy .The reason is the poor sales of products, production and operation difficulties, I feel that they are incompetent, the work did not do well, and worried that my colleagues Are laughing at themselves, family members do not understand me.Even with friends go out to dinner, entertainment is not interested .In the life without a bit of happiness, what should I do? ”Modern life has a common characteristic - not happy. The development of society, the fierce competition and the improvement of work efficiency have made people physically and mentally exhausted. Some people have for a long time not experienced what it calls vitality, and the hectic life has made people stereotyped. In addition due to the pursuit of perfect character, every day in the strong pressure on themselves