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越长大越孤单的原因可能就在于,我们的灵魂生长得越来越完整、越来越任性、越来越渴求全面的吸引,也越来越无法接受那些因彼此不理解而造成的“情感浪费”。前段时间,有个姑娘向我抱怨,说自己很孤独。她所谓的孤独,其实就是“别人的想法自己无法理解,自己的想法别人无法接受”。她说,不知道是不是她和大家天生就是两个频道的人,明明是一件她觉得很无聊的事情,大家却哈哈大笑;遇到某个场景某个时刻她觉得很有感触,旁人却总是尴尬地应付几句,气氛随即凝固。这让我想起曾经看过这样一个故事,说的是一群
The more loneliness may grow, the more loneliness may lie in the fact that our souls grow more and more complete, more capricious, and increasingly desire to be fully attracted and increasingly unacceptable to those who fail to understand each other “ Emotional waste ”. Some time ago, a girl complained to me and said she was lonely. Her so-called loneliness is actually “others can not understand their own ideas, others can not accept their own ideas ”. She said she did not know if she and everyone were born two channel people, obviously she felt very boring things, we all laughed; encountered a scene at some point she felt very touched, others It is always embarrassed to deal with a few words, the atmosphere then solidified. It reminds me of such a story I’ve ever seen before and it is a group