“惯用语”说出你的秘密

• 作 者: 张焱
• 出 处: 现代交际
• 发表日期: 2002年09期
• 关键词: 人际交往过程 无意识状态 性格特征 交际对象 初次见面 行为习惯 不自觉 英国绅士 服从性 慎徽

“惯用语”就是人们在人际交往中使用的习惯性用语。“惯用语”虽是人们在无意识状态下不自觉使用的,但它却会暴露出一个人的行为习惯和性格特征。正因为如此,在人际交往过程中,当你与人初次见面时,只要留意对方的“惯用语”,你就不难掌握交际对象的特性,先声夺人,进而达到成功交际的目的。这“惯用语”就是一种简单的解读人性格的密码。只要你成功地破译了密码,就像给电脑输入了开机密码,下一步你就可以逐步运行,直达目标了。

“Idioms” are the idioms that people use in their relationships. Although idioms are unconsciously used by people in the unconscious state, they reveal one’s behavior and character. Because of this, in the process of interpersonal communication, when you first meet with people, as long as you pay attention to each other’s “idioms”, you will not be difficult to grasp the characteristics of communicative objects, pioneer, and thus achieve the purpose of successful communication. This “idiom” is a simple password to interpret a person’s personality. As long as you successfully decipher the password, just enter the power-on password for the computer, and you will be able to run it step-by-step until it reaches your target.