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过去有一句话,叫做”对于女人来说一辈子只要有爱,往往就会原谅男人种种欠缺”。种种欠缺包括什么?没钱?没权?没工作?没人品?没身高?还是没长相?或者还有爱的一时走私? 《两性差异》一书的作者韦娜就说得直截了当:”对于男女双方而言,爱情是为生存而战。”因此,所谓”原谅”“欠缺”的爱是有基本前提的。尽管每个人的基本前提不一样。但是,不讲一辈子的生存,”只要有爱”这话就说得通了。爱情的本质是:强烈、疯狂、毁灭的情感,否则,小女生不会都爱白马王子。爱白马王子不是爱他的王位,而是爱他人的英俊潇洒。爱美,这是基本人性。为美不惜“毁灭”,男人如此,女人亦如此。社会继续开放,观念不断变化,爱美,爱白马王子一样的男人,带来了快速多变而且复杂的感情问题。率性而爱的不乏其人,“只要有爱”却变得更加脆弱
In the past there was a sentence called “For a woman, as long as there is love, often will forgive all the man lacking.” Lack of money? No rights? No work? No products? No height? Still no appearance? Or have a temporary smuggling of love? “Gender differences” author Werner is rightly said: “For For both men and women, love is fighting for survival. ”Therefore, the so-called“ forgiveness ”and“ lack of ”love have the basic premise. Although everyone’s basic premise is different. However, if you do not speak for a lifetime, you can say “as long as you have love”. The essence of love is: strong, crazy, destructive emotions, otherwise, little girls will not love Prince Charming. Love Prince Charming is not the love of his throne, but loving others handsome. Beauty, this is basic humanity. For the United States at the “destruction”, men, women are also true. Society continues to open, changing concepts, beauty, love Prince Charming the same man, has brought a fast changing and complex emotional issues. Rush and love no lack of people, “as long as love” has become more vulnerable