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安慰别人时,使尽浑身解数也无济于事?其实,你首先要做的,并不是帮对方解决问题本身,而是处理他的情绪。程旭是一个热心肠,看到别人痛苦,会想尽办法开导,但结果总不理想。哥们肖斌失恋了,很痛苦。为了开解他,程旭滔滔不绝地数落着肖斌女友的不是:“三条腿的蛤蟆不好找,两条腿的人有的是。她有什么了不起,还瞧不上你?”“那她为什么不喜欢我呢?”肖斌却执着于这个问题。“也许是你们恋爱时间太长,产生了审美疲劳。也
When comforting others, doing all they can does nothing. In fact, what you do first is not to help each other solve the problem itself, but to deal with his emotions. Cheng Xu is a warmhearted, see others pain, will find ways to enlighten, but the result is not always satisfactory. Xiao Bin lover, buddy, very painful. In order to solve him, Cheng Xu endless number of Xiao Bin’s girlfriend is not: ”Three-legged toad is not easy to find, two-legged people are.She was amazing, but also despise you? Why did she not like me? “” Xiao Bin is clinging to this question. "Maybe you love too long, resulting in aesthetic fatigue