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满足深层渴望:安全、接纳、我是重要的父母创造条件,能够让孩子在安心做真实自己的前提下,内心渴望得到满足,这是孩子健康成长的关键。而且,这么做并非只对孩子有好处,对父母也有滋养作用,因为人与人在渴望层面的联结互动,本身就是一种滋养、治愈的能量。“安全”“接纳”和“我是重要的”这三种渴望在帮助孩子建立自尊自信方面尤为重要。以下九个案例,帮助父母辨识出孩子的这些渴望,并学会用健康的方式予以满足。
To satisfy the deep desire: safety, acceptance, I am important to create conditions for parents to allow children to feel at ease under the premise of their own inner desire to be satisfied, this is the key to the healthy growth of children. Moreover, doing so is not only good for the child, but also nourishing for the parents. Because the interaction between the people at the desire level is itself a nourishing and healing energy. Security, Acceptance, and I’m Important are all three aspects that are especially important in helping children build self-esteem. The following nine cases help parents recognize these desires of their children and learn to satisfy them in a healthy manner.