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随着年龄的增长,孩子们与社会的接触越来越广泛,他们渴望独立的愿望也日益变得强烈。与家庭的联系疏远,不再事事听从父母的指挥。他们对父母和老师的教导产生质疑,对家庭的一些传统习惯不愿适应,尤其当家长或老师仍以对待小孩子的方式对待他们而使其自尊心受伤害时,很容易引起他们的对抗心理并表现在言论和行为方面。家长应针对孩子的独立意向发展,尊重他们正确的意见,有事同他们商量,逐渐给他们更多的独立权,同时也对他们提出更高的要求,要把他们看成
As they grow older, children become more exposed to society and their desire to independence grows stronger. Alienated from the family, no longer obey the command of their parents. They question the teaching of their parents and teachers and are unwilling to adapt to some of the family’s traditional habits, especially when parents or teachers treat them with self-esteem while still treating them as children and can easily arouse their confrontation Performance in speech and behavior. Parents should develop their children’s independent intention, respect their correct opinions, discuss things with them, and gradually give them more rights to independence, but also put forward higher requirements on them, regard them as