事先给儿子打“预防针”

• 作 者: 江霞
• 出 处: 家庭(育儿)
• 发表日期: 2003年09期
• 关键词: 压针 开开心心 集体活动

儿子2岁的时候,奶奶有事不能带他了,外婆“接受重任”。儿子一直由奶奶带,跟奶奶感情特别好,我担心奶奶走后儿子会不适应而排斥新来的外婆。于是我们用了将近3周的时间,有意识地跟儿子讲奶奶为什么要回家了,外婆来了应该怎样和她相处,还不时让他给外婆通电话,提前做好心理准备。奶奶和外婆“交接班”时,儿子尽管舍不得奶奶,但他很快就接纳了外婆,并相处得非常好。

2 years old son, grandma something can not take him, grandmother “accept the task ”. My son has been with my grandmother, especially with my grandmother, I am worried that my grandmother go after the son will not adapt to the exclusion of new grandmother. So we spent nearly 3 weeks, consciously tell her son why go home, grandmother came and how to get along with her, but also from time to time let him grandmother calls, mentally prepared in advance. Grandmother and grandmother “transfer class ”, although his son was reluctant to grandmother, but he soon accepted the grandmother, and get along very well.