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独生子女由于生活环境和地位的特殊,其心理状态和行为必然有其独特性,那么,独生子女的心理行为有哪些特点呢?具体分析有如下一些特点: 1．娇气和任性。由于家里只有一个孩子,家长也有精力去疼爱孩子,怕孩子不高兴,怕孩子受委屈。结果,对孩子百依百顺,什么事都由着孩子的性子去做,时间一久,孩子就变得娇气和任性了。 2．独尊心态。由于独生子女受众人的疼爱和服务,易产生唯我独尊的心理状态。 3．自私行为。多数独生子女缺少和同龄人共同生活的经历,也就缺少友爱谦让的精神,其多数有自私自利的行为。 4．忌妒心理。独尊和自私的心理状态的延伸,就是独生子女的忌妒心理的表现。 5．依赖心强。由于独生子女受到过度的呵护,必然产生很强的依赖心理． 6．逆反心理。娇宠惯了的孩子难以接受家长说“不”,很容易形成有意违背家长意愿的逆反心理。
Because of their unique living environment and status, the one-child children must have their own unique psychological status and behavior. What are the characteristics of the only-child’s psychological behavior? The specific analysis has the following characteristics: 1. Frivolous and wayward. As the family has only one child, parents also have energy to love children, afraid of children unhappy, afraid of children wronged. As a result, the children are obedient, everything is done by the child’s temper, over time, the child becomes delicate and wayward. 2. Exclusive attitude. Due to the love and service of the one-child audience, it is easy to produce the only state of mind. 3. Selfish behavior. Most of the only children lack experience of living together with their peers, and lack of friendly and humiliating spirit, most of them have selfish behavior. 4. Jealousy. The extension of the exclusive and selfish mentality is the jealousy of the only child. 5. Depends on the heart. Due to the excessive care of the only child, it will inevitably have a strong dependence on psychology. 6. Reverse psychology. Parents who are spoiled by spoiled parents can not accept the parents saying “no” and can easily form the rebellious mentality that is intended to violate the parents’ wishes.