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导语:近日,哈尔滨市某重点中学的家长学校对1200名初二、初三的学生进行了“青春期烦恼根源”方面的专题调查.在“来自家庭生活的烦恼”一项中,选择“妈妈的唠叨让我心烦意乱”、“妈妈的强硬意志让我郁闷”、“妈妈的过细管束让我苦笑不得”这三项的女生。分别达到73.1%、66.8%和78.5%!男生只有25.4%、22.8%和12.7%:与此相反.选择“爸爸的粗暴管教让我敢怒不敢言”、“爸爸的呵斥与叹气让我伤心”、“爸爸的强制命令让我心生反感”这三项的男生.分别达到了54.2%、49.1%和69.3%.而女生只有8.2%、17.5%和13.8%!结果显示.进入青春期的孩子.更可能与同性家长闹对立、起冲突,出现“同性相斥”的现象。那么,一旦发现孩子有此倾向,父母的教子策略应当做哪些调整呢?
Lead: Recently, a key middle school in Harbin, the parents of 1,200 students on the first and third days of the “adolescent troubles root causes.” In the “trouble from family life,” a, Select “Mom’s nagging upset me ”, “Mom’s tough will let me depressed ”, “Mom’s thin tube bundle makes me smile ” These three girls. Respectively, to 73.1%, 66.8% and 78.5%, respectively. There are only 25.4%, 22.8% and 12.7% of boys: on the contrary, choosing “Daddy’s rude discipline makes me dare to say nothing”, “Dad’s scolding and sighing Let me sad ”,“ daddy’s compulsive order made me feel resentful. ”The three boys reached 54.2%, 49.1% and 69.3% respectively while the girls only had 8.2%, 17.5% and 13.8%. Results Show that children entering adolescence are more likely to be confronted with homosexual parents, conflict, and the phenomenon of “same-sex exclusion”. So, once found that children have this tendency, what should be done to parents’ pedantic strategies?