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许多中学生在心理咨询时诉说自己喜欢上了异性同学,不知如何是好。有的说“在我的心目中,她已经占领了整个心,白天上课的时候,时不时地看她几眼,我就觉得心里特别舒服。”有的说“我没有精力学习,失去了她就像失去了未来一样,我像一只没有目的的蚊子,到处乱飞。”有的说“因为我现在不是谈恋爱的时候……所以我不敢对她表白我的爱,怕对她的学习不利。但我每天都想见她……” 其实,这种现象在中学生中是比较普遍的。在青春发育期,男女同学之间产生一种神秘好感是正常的,在个别学生身上就表现为思慕异性同学,这种现象受生理发育和社会影响的双重影响,决不能
Many high school students in psychological counseling tell themselves that they like the opposite sex students, I do not know how to be good. Some said, “In my mind, she has taken over the whole heart, during the daytime class, I glanced at her from time to time, and I felt particularly comfortable in my heart.” Some said “I did not study hard and lost her Like a lost future, I like a mosquito with no purpose, flying around everywhere. ”Some say“ because I am not in love at the moment ... so I am afraid to confess my love for her, afraid of her learning Bad, but I want to see her every day ... ... ”In fact, this phenomenon is more common among middle school students. In the period of puberty, it is normal that there is a kind of mysterious favor between male and female students, which manifests itself as the same-sex students in individual students. This phenomenon can not be affected by both physiological development and social influence