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有人和我说过,倾听是一种色彩,学会倾听你会发现原来世界是这样的五彩缤纷,倾听是一种善良,学会倾听你会知道从此你不再孤单,倾听是一种幸福,学会倾听你会有更多的朋友,你就会有信任有支持。倾听是一种能力,学会倾听你就会正确的选择。美国教育学家娜思夫人说过这样一句至理名言:从小播下良好习惯的种子,将会获得命运的收获。有良好倾听习惯的孩子将终生收益。倾听就是细心地听取别人说话,善于倾听是一个人不可缺少的修养,学会倾听不但能正确完整地听取所要的信息,而且会给人留下认真、塌实、尊重他人的印象。倾听,表面上听起来是一件容易的事情,不就是听别人说话吗?其实不然,倾听不仅是要听,而且要细心的听,集中精力的去听,参与到讲话者的思想里去。良好的倾听习惯包括:在听别人说话时,不随意插嘴,打断他人讲话,让孩子懂得分辨插话的时机,养成把话听完并证得讲话人同意才插话的习惯。因此,良好的倾听习惯要从小抓起。
Someone told me that listening is a color, learn to listen to you will find that the original world is such a colorful, listening is a kind, learn to listen to you will know you are no longer alone, listening is a blessing, learn to listen to you There will be more friends, you will have trust and support. Listening is a skill, learn to listen to you will be the right choice. Madame Naese, an American educator, has said the most famous saying: Sowing seeds of good habits from an early age will gain the fortune of fate. Children with good listening habits will benefit for the rest of their life. Listening is to listen attentively to others, being good at listening is an indispensable accomplishment, and listening can not only correctly and completely listen to the desired information, but also give people the impression of being serious, compassionate and respecting others. Listen, on the surface sounds an easy thing, do not just listen to others? In actual fact, listen not only to listen, but also to listen carefully, to concentrate on listening, to participate in the speaker’s thoughts. Good listening habits include listening to other people’s speech, not arbitrarily interrupting, interrupting others’ speech, allowing children to understand the timing of interrupting speech and cultivating the habit of hearing and witnessing that the speaker agreed to interject. Therefore, good listening habits should start from childhood.