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在一次中学生心理课上,老师当堂提出了一个问题“哪些同学和家长是知心朋友?”儿子略加考虑后,第一个举起了手。在儿子心目中,我与他有着父子和朋友的双重关系,这种关系的建立,还要从“玩”上说起。儿子长到3岁的时候,生性好动的性格日益显露。傍晚,刚从幼儿园回家的儿子便软磨硬泡地拉着我去“开球”。当时,家里的旧足球太大,常常是儿子把球踢出去了,自己也摔个屁股蹲。见儿子的眼泪就要掉出来,我又把球传到他的跟前,他破涕为笑,站起来,接着又是一脚。天黑了,我边给儿子洗澡边和妻子讨论:爱玩,是孩子的天性,对孩子身心的发育是有益的,与孩子同玩也是初建亲情的过程。于是,我带儿子选购了
In a middle school psychology class, the teacher denied the question “Which students and parents are close friends?” The son raised his hand for the first time after a little thought. In my son’s mind, I have a dual relationship with him, father and son and friend. The establishment of such a relationship should also start with “play.” When the son grows to 3 years old, the character of active and vigorous appears day by day. In the early evening, the son who came home from kindergarten softly took me to “kick off”. At that time, the old football in the house was too big, often the son kicked the ball out, and he also squatted ass. See his son’s tears fall out, and I passed the ball to him again, he ruined, stood up, and then kicked. Dark, I gave my son a bath while discussing with his wife: love to play, is the child’s nature, is beneficial to the physical and mental development of children, playing with children is also the process of establishing a new family. So, I bought with my son