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今年是我与老伴结婚60周年,我们的婚姻是父母包办的。新中国成立前,她的母亲去世没有棺材,央人来我家求借。年过半百的父母见她家实在可怜,就将自用的棺材借了一口给她家。她父亲念我家救急之情,要将女儿许配给我。当时我不到8岁,父母怕以后家贫、年老找不到儿媳妇,就满口答应了。我年龄稍大后,听说此女孩不爱讲话,又不识字,就向父母提出退婚。父母非但不依,反而要我结“童养婚”。我
This year is the 60th anniversary of my marriage with my wife. Our marriage is arranged by parents. Before the founding of new China, her mother died without a coffin, the central people come to my house to borrow. Over half a year old parents see her home is really poor, they will use one of the coffin to her home. Her father read my family’s urgency, the daughter should be allocated to me. At that time I was less than 8 years old, parents afraid of later poor, old age can not find a daughter-in-law, it was promised. When I was a little older, I heard that this girl did not love to talk, nor was she literate. Parents not only do not follow, but to my knot “child marriage marriage ”. I